I have learned that I can bring all the emotions to the surface regarding my co-dependency on my Narcissist parents, and have them removed via emotional healing techniques, rather than spending hundreds of dollars dealing with them. Counseling is an option, but it's not the most effective. The best way is do deal with the source.
And Jayne, I too, have plans. So, we are going to do some of the things you want to do, and some of the things I want to do. I may not be able to pay for it, but plan on being taken to Chili's on a date. And then probably we will do what you want to do on that day.
I will also see about setting up a double date with a friend of mine and his wife.
I love you, Jayne. I know you're ready.